Dear Dan and Jean,
I cannot share with you how much I have prayed for you during the past years
since your diagnosis. In January of 2005 I was in an automobile accident
that has left me disabled and in constant, chronic pain. I find relief through
praying for others and meditation. (It comes naturally since my vocation
was being a Christian Pastor in the United Methodist Church). How I loved my
work and helping people find God's presence and their way through whatever
happened in life. I can do that no more. I am now only able to spiritually
support people through prayer. So you have been on the top of my list for some
time now.
I read as much as my eyes will allow. I recently read a book on healing by
a Native American doctor and one of the many thoughts that he shared was that
a journey has a beginning and an end....it is the middle of the journey
where we have to stay the course. I don't know where you are in your
journey...but I pray that you are staying the course through both the good times and the
bad. It is, after all, the hardest part of our journeys. My prayers are
with you, Jean, and your extended family.
I want to also thank you for all of your years of wonderful, beautiful, and
diverse music. I fell in love with your music in high school when your first "album" was released. I continued to follow the course of your career when
my life took me to seminary in Washington D.C. in 1981. I found out you were
performing just outside D.C. in Virginia. So I asked a handsome young man to come to the concert with me. His name was/is James and he too played in a band
while attending college. He had never heard of your music before and so I was
thrilled to introduce him to your music that night.
At the concert you introduced the new song you had just written for your
father entitled, "The Leader of the Band." When you were finished the audience
went wild with applause and cheers. Your comment in return was, "Thank you.
My Dad likes it too."
In the course of my journey I ended up marrying that handsome man named
James in May 1982. We have traveled far and wide to attend your concerts as we
have both continued to love and purchase your music. It has helped us to
celebrate the rich and rewarding love that we share. Your music has also soothed
our wounded souls when we lost our baby and found out that we would never
have children. It was devastating to us both of us. No words could ever
describe the emotional pain that we were in. Yet it was your music that helped us
through. Your music has spoken what we have felt about the earth and
humanity and we cannot forget to thank you for the beautiful Christmas CD. We just
love it and have been able to introduce many others to your music in our
ministries. (Yes, my handsome James is a United Methodist Minister too and he
still plays in a band).
My handsome James and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary this past
May. We cannot forget to thank you for bringing music into our lives that have
helped us to "stay the course" through sickness and in health. We are still
crazy about each other and cannot forget the man whose music has been so
much a part of our lives.
I have never met you or Jean, yet you have been in my prayers and will
continue to be. In this season of Thanksgiving, I am most grateful to you for the
music that helps me now to stay a painful and difficult course. May God
grant you those daily assurances of His steadfast love and presence and may your
heart and soul be at peace as you "stay the course."
With much gratitude ~
Kate E. Cox.
Dan,
You are one decent man and I wish I could have been your friend!
Your music is excellent and I will pray for you tonight!
Sincerely ~
Brian S. Law,
Smithtown, NY
Hi Dan...
I hope your healing is progressing well. I only recently heard about
this and my thoughts and prayers are with you ! My father,as a senior
citizen,survived advanced prostate cancer. And he's a music lover too....so
"Leader Of The Band" has special meaning to me !
I can't recall what year it was but a group of friends and
I saw you on your solo tour --just you, your piano and guitar --at a
theater here in Roanoke , Virginia and it was one of the greatest concerts I
ever attended. Your music never gets old. I listen over and over again and
enjoy the beauty and brilliance of your lyrics and melodies They're so
unique...always fresh...and a treat to hear. "Longer" and the "Phoenix" album were
my first experiences of your work. "Phoenix", "Nether Lands", the "Portrait" collection and "The Innocent Age" are my
favorites....but I have most of your work.
Thank you for the joy the music still brings me. I can't believe people
actually ask if "Same Old Lang Syne" actually happened. How can you make up
that story ? It's so real as I'm sure much of your music is like "Dancing
Shoes" and "Beggars Game"....just amazing....compelling stuff !
Thanks for indulging me. God bless you! ~
Joe from Roanoke , VA via Philadelphia , PA
Mr. Fogelberg -
It's probably impossible for me to fully explain in words of how I hope, pray and wish
for your complete and speedy recovery from this illness. I am sure you hear it from so
many people that it gets old, but I have followed you and your music for over 30 years
now. Your Innocent Age album is the best there is, the best there was, and the best
there ever will be, bar none. The depth, love and magic of your songs have touched me
like no other, with my personal favorite being "The Reach". I can't quite remember every
line written in that magnificent album anymore... but I certainly did for many years and
come pretty close still.
I had the pleasure of seeing you in Omaha, in a solo act. I can still remember that you
had contacted a slight cold, and so warned the crowd that your voice might possibly get
scratchy on some of the higher notes as you sang. But you were magnificent. For me,
your music, above and beyond any others, lifts my spirit as little else can... besides my
children. =D. Your songs are a daily routine for me and have been since the late 1970's
Dan... best wishes! Beat this thing! God bless you and your family. ~
Wade Brazee,
Columbus Nebraska
Dear Dan,
I believe in Heaven and know that God has worked through you and your music to inspire and uplift millions of people. You have been and remain an excellent role model for all and especially musicians. Your music is incomparable and I look forward to seeing you in concert again soon. Best wishes for a complete recovery and may God strengthen you and yours in that effort.
A loyal fan and friend ~
Kim Thorup
Dan,
Your music has been a part of my life for more than 30 years at this point. I don't have
the gift to give to you what you have given to me, but I can say 'Thank you' for all that
your music has meant to me.
Best wishes and good thoughts are sent your way every time someone hears one of your
songs. May they lift you and sustain you through every trial in your life.
Be well, now and in the future.
Warmest regards ~
G Greene
My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. I have always found comfort in your music and I hope in your time of need you have something or someone that will bring you comfort. My Best Wishes for a speedy recovery. ~ Heather Brown
Hi Dan - I write you from Barcelona (Spain) and this email comes with my sincere desire that you have a quick recovery. Since I discovered you I felt a strong tie to you. The music, your style, you. You are a great friend to me. I found out about your illness on your website. I am a sincere admirer and send you a great hug. ~ Alex
Bless you and your family as you continue your
journey. Sincerely ~
Cheryl Cutting
Dear Dan:
Yesterday I happened to hear one of my favorites of your songs, "Leader of
the Band." As usual, it made me cry - as somehow I think you must have known my father and written it about him. He was all of those things you sing about:
an only child, a World War II soldier whose "horn" playing Big Band sounds
soothed the concerns of his fellow heroes, a man whose discipline confused me
as a child and I understand so well now as a parent. And I don't think I ever
said I love him near enough!
As it happens, yesterday, when I randomly heard this song, was the 11th
anniversary of my father's death. Realizing that there must have been some cosmic
reason for that song to have played on that date, I decided after many, many
years of loving your music, to write to you to thank you for all of the
melodies that have enhanced my life since first discovering you as a college
freshman in 1974. But particularly to thank you for giving me the lasting gift of
my father's memory in "Leader of the Band."
So, imagine my shock at seeing what you are dealing with! Maybe there really
is some cosmic reason for hearing that song yesterday! Here's the deal, D.F.
- you'll get through this! My husband had lymphoma and it was BAD, but there
was no way we were going to let it defeat us! I hope you can somehow call
upon all the strength you have ever had, all the love of your family, and all
the love of your fans to give you the stamina and stubbornness necessary to
fight this! There are days, I'm sure, that are tough, but I always tell my
kids: all you have to do is put one foot out, then the next - little steps, but
keep on moving forward.
With much love from the Leader of the Band's daughter ~
Nikki Steingold
I just learned today of your struggle with prostate cancer. I certainly want
to add my voice to all those who are sending prayers heavenward on your
behalf. I first heard your music in 1973 as a freshman in college. Then, now and
through all the years in between it has provided a balm for my spirit, lifted
me when I needed to be lifted, and provided comfort in the times of pain and
turmoil. Through all those years I have turned to the music and as always you were able to reach somewhere deep inside my being and touch my heart in just
the right spot. After all these years you still do that. I pray for peace,
comfort and healing as you and your family face the times ahead and I pray that your spirit may be lifted in these times as you have lifted mine through
the past 30+ years.
Dan, like thousands of your fans I search your web site weekly to find
an update of your condition. It's like knowing a relative is having
trouble but you can't reach them or they can't reach you and the unknown
can be torture. But then again we know you are a private person and at
times like these you have no obligation to inform us of anything. You
have given the world so much during the past 30 years you owe us
nothing. I sincerely hope you are fairing well and understand your
privacy. I'll be content to play your songs on my D-41DF Martin guitar
and think of you fondly as I do, wishing my good thoughts are helping
you in some way. Thank you for all you have given. ~ Rich, Pittsburgh, PA
Dan:
When I heard that you had been given the dubious opportunity to redefine
yourself in the face of cancer I wanted to send you and your family a brief note. You have already had to travel some difficult roads in the face of the
diagnosis and there will doubtless be more in the future but I hope that, like so
many others who have had been diagnosed with cancer, you will, on the back
side, find it to have been a road worth traveling.
The biggest challenge that we face in our lives is to remain ourselves -
true to our truest form of self - in the face of adversity. In my work as a
therapist and as a volunteer with the Lance Armstrong Foundation I have had the
blessing of being able to meet and work with a great many people who have been
facing the challenges that cancer has brought to their lives and I wanted to
share with you the overall message that I have gotten from each one of
them... "You can either let your life be defined by your cancer or you can continue to define your life yourself."
If anyone can do it - define their cancer in ways that allow them to remain
themselves - true to their family, friends and themselves - you can. In this
run for the roses there are millions of winners every year - so, if you
haven't already done so I encourage you to choose life, love, happiness and
family. Choose to be the best friend you can be to yourself and those around you - for, if you can do that, the battle is won no matter the outcome.
When we seek magic - even in the darkest of times - we find more of
ourselves.
I wish you and all those close to you all the best that this challenge can
bring you - and may life, in this its most simple form, fill you with joy and an ease of spirit through the course of this challenge and belong! ~
Ellen Brock
To Dan Fogelberg -
I just wanted to let you know that my heart goes out to you and your family through these hard times.
I am a huge fan of you and your music, and have been so for a great number of years.
I love your lyrics and the ease with which the melody flows!!!
You are in my thoughts. Sincerely ~ Mikael, Denmark
Dan, I often think of you and wish you good health and happiness and hope you continue to heal. Love and best regards ~ Malcolm. Scotland.
Dan, My husband just broke the news to me of your prostate cancer as he had
pulled up your website and was listening to your music. We have been to many of your concerts (we lived in Colorado for 10 years) and have fond memories of warm, summer nights at Red Rocks hearing your wonderful voice. You make so many people smile and have been blessed with such a given talent. We are praying for you and please know how many of those you touched will be touching you back with their love and thoughts. Be strong... ~ Lynn and Dave
Dan,
My wife and I miss the joy of searching the record shelves for new albums by you. Your
ballads fill our souls with the emotions of life. We will keep you and your family inn
our prayers. Stay strong, know that your work has great importance in our lives.
Dan, I first heard your music from a roommate of mine some 30 years ago. I
was amazed by the beauty and emotion of the music. It was different than the
commercial music everyone else was playing and I fell in love with it from the
first song. Even today, 30 years later, your music is like an old best friend.
I listen to and enjoy all kinds of music but nothing touches my heart like
your songs. I hope God answers your prayers. ~ Dan Anderberg
Dear Dan, It's been three years now since we heard the news of "the" cancer. ( I say "the" because I refuse to allow it to be a part of "you" )I now feel a connection deeper than before to you. On what would have been my 51st birthday ( I'm a leap year baby and this was March 1st) I was diagnosed with rectal carcinoma during a routine physical. I've undergone 28 concurrent radiation and oral chemo treatments, followed by two Folfox drip chemo treatments prior to surgery. Even though my treatment had all but eliminated the tumor, I ended up with a permanent colostomy ( and other procedures ) since the cancer was still found in area where the tumor had been. Like you, I have gone public attempting to save someone else from my ordeal. Another live performance by you would be just what the Dr ordered but under the circumstances, all your focus should be on you and overcoming this issue. Don't ever let it become a part of you. I tell people I'm a cancer patient, never that I "have" cancer. It's a waiting game for me now.....2-3 years for this type to show back up. In the meantime, my life will go on as normal as I can make it. I hope you're doing the same. We have been given a gift, so to speak. Nothing is taken for granted anymore. I know you well through your music ( since '73 ) but given the chance, I'd jump to know the man behind the music. Stay strong ~ Jennifer Wehking
Dear Dan,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and all that is good is being
wished and directed your way. Your music has been a powerful force in
so many lives, as it has been in mine. While I only know you from your
artistic creations, I believe that you have the strength to overcome
this. May all the joy, passion, strength and comfort, you have given to
others through the years now return to you and your loved ones.
With sincere respect and affection ~
Lynette A. - Tucson, AZ
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